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Take a vaction on WORRY FREE ISLAND
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I hope you are intrigued about this vacation on WORRY FREE ISLAND.
When I meet someone who is stressed or anxious it is very difficult to start to help them until they have put their problems into perspective. Most people are on a downward spiral, because they are magnifying their problems. Over the years I have come up with a two day vacation that helps the client unwind. It did not have a name until very recently, but one of my clients called it WORRY FREE ISLAND in her correspondence to me, and it just fitted so well I have adopted the name.
What the aim is, is to give someone two worry free days so that they get time to think and look at their situation differently.
I personally do not believe there is any such thing as a problem, because if you can do something about it there is no problem, and if you cannot do anything about there is also no problem. The first thing I tell everyone to do is to face each situation and ask two questions. One “ Can I do anything about it?” and then “Is there anything I can do to alter the situation?” If the answers are YES and NO in that order I suggest that they forget it until it presents itself as something you can solve. These situations where we try and solve problems that only exist in our mind lead to “circular thought” another Crozism . This means that we take a situation and try and guess what is going to happen, because there is no problem and we are only play acting various possibilities, it is impossible to come up with a solution. The thoughts and possible outcomes and scenarios keep going round and round in your mind, hence “circular thoughts”.
It is amazing how many people are worrying about things that have not happened.
When we have clarified that all these potential disasters only exist in their mind, we move onto programming their attitude. You must be happy and put out a genuine wish for happiness to everyone you meet. It is amazing that when you put out this happy attitude you never bump into anyone who is miserable.
During these two days of release from all the tension , you must notice all the things that suddenly start going right. Also you must monitor all the things that you used to call a coincidence. You will be amazed at the change in your attitude to people and the feeling of release that you experience.
If you have difficulty in leaving these so called problems behind for two days, check them in with left luggage for two days and tell them that you will pick them up on your way back. A lot of people think that worrying and solving problems that do not exist, is all part of life.
Most people who programme themselves to visit WORRY FREE ISLAND get immediate benefit, and neglect to collect their problems at left luggage.
Thank you for visiting the Croz website, and I wish you every happiness in life.
If you would like to get more info on any of our other services please request these at the same time.
Abundance to All
Croz from OZ
Do not run away from your fears, because if they catch you, you will be too tired to fight them.